It has been said:
“Someone clinging to a board in the sea is not more in need of Allah and His kindness than someone at home, among his people and property.”
Calling upon Allah is something that we are obligated to do as part of our religion. Supplication to Allah is manifested most beautifully in the daily Salat. The appropriate etiquette of calling upon Allah is fulfilled in that we praise Him, and show our desperation by prostration and we also ask Allah to send peace and blessings upon the Messenger of Allah.
Also there is something very special about the nature of du’a; it is the essence of worship. Worship is characterized by the pillars of love, fear, and hope. As a perfection of our monotheism, we do not direct these actions of the heart to anyone other than Allah in the same way that we direct them to Allah. What is also significant is that du’a is an act of worship that combines all the pillars of worship. We call upon Allah mainly because of our love for Him, and we fear His punishment and hope in His mercy.
Asking of Allah is so natural that even those who are not muslim call upon Allah. From the manifestations of the natural beliefs engrained in humanity is a need to call upon the Creator. Even an atheist, who rejects the concept of an all-powerful creator submits in a time of extreme need and desperation. Allah mentions in the Qur’an the polytheists who would give a share of their worship to other than Allah, but when they were truly in need they naturally abandoned those that could not even help themselves until they arrived to shore.
“And when they board a ship, they supplicate Allah, sincere to Him in religion. But when He delivers them to the land, at once they associate others with Him” Surat Al-‘Ankabut 29:65
An experience like this is enough to shake someone’s false belief that anyone but God can rescue you from the dilemmas you face. And if it is to Allah that we turn when we are in a state of desperation, then why would we put our hope in anyone but Him when it comes to any other affair of our lives.
It is also important to mention that many think that because we have such an organized religion, that our Lord is completely unknowable and we can have no relationship with Him. Far from the truth, in fact we are encouraged to call upon Allah in times of need and humble ourselves before His majesty.
“And when My servants ask you, [O Muhammad], concerning Me – indeed I am near. I respond to the invocation of the supplicant when he calls upon Me. So let them respond to Me [by obedience] and believe in Me that they may be [rightly] guided.” Surat al-Baqarah 2:186
Allah has also made some times more virtuous than others and we should take advantage of them when we ask of Allah.
Abu Hurayrah narrates that the Messenger of Allaah said, “Our Lord, the Blessed and Most High, descends every night to the lowest heaven when only the last third of the night remains and says, ‘who is calling upon Me so that I may respond? Who is seeking My forgiveness so that I may forgive Him.'” Reported by Saheeh Muslim [ Eng. Trans. 1/365 no. 1656]
Also ibn Rajab al-Hambali has said:
“Were you to go to the door of the governor, he would not receive you or give you any attention, perhaps he will even prevent you from getting near him. But the King of kings is saying ‘Whoever comes to me walking, I will go to him running,’ yet you turn away from Him and run after another!”
And Allah will answer inshaAllah (God Willing) if we show our patience and protect our limbs from that which is unlawful and keep ourselves from sustaining our bodies on that which is unlawful.
Abu hurayrah also narrates that the messenger of Allah said :
“Allah the Almighty is good and accepts only that which is good. Allah has commanded the faithful to do that which he commanded the messengers, and the Almighty has said: “O ye messengers ! Eat of the good things and do right”. And Allah the Almighty has said : “O ye who believe! Eat of the good things wherewith We have provided you” Then he mentioned [the case of] a man who, having journeyed far, is dishevelled and dusty and who spreads out his hands to the sky [saying] : “O Lord! O Lord!” – while his food is unlawful, his drink unlawful, his clothing unlawful, and he is nourished unlawfully, so how can he be answered !”
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Also in a hadith narrated by Abu Hurayrah, the prophet says:
“Your supplications will be answered as long as you are not impatient by saying, ‘I have supplicated to my Lord but He has not answered.'” [Saheeh Bukhaaree [ Eng. Trans. 8/236 no. 352]]
When we want something from our parents, we ask over and over again to show our great desire for something. But when we ask from Allah we need to be consistent in showing how we expect good from Allah, and our reliance on Him.
And remember du’a is the weapon of the believer.